The
latter end of the twentieth century right into the twenty-first brought to bear
one thing- that we have many choices of almost anything in existence. (Copy and
tweet). Coupled with the explosion of social media,
you don’t have to settle for just one thing…you can have more if only you want
to. It has its advantages and disadvantages. This era seem to resonate with one
of James Bond’s movie- the world is not enough. (Copy and tweet).
When
it comes to relationships, having several choices might be good in the early
stages yet you ought to be able to settle on someone as the only one. (Copy and
tweet). Without a settle mind, several choices only lead
to one thing- the danger of constantly comparing. (Copy and tweet). Our modern trends have proven that
many would want to “kiss” a lot before they settle for the best lip. Yet I
believe there are enough statistics to prove more and more relationships don’t
last in our times as in the older years gone by.
I
believe in being bold to come to terms with who you really want to be with in a
relationship. (Copy and tweet). Whether
the person is short, tall, light or dark skinned, English, French etc, it’s a decision
God has freely given to each person to exercise. (Copy and tweet). It’s your duty to exercise this free
gift to the best of your ability. I know sometimes the culture in which we are
raised plays a major role in who we relate to or not. Yet when you come to
terms with your choices, be bold and accept your portion in life.
God knows
who will bring you fulfilment and satisfaction. Nothing happens by accident. (Copy
and tweet).You didn’t meet the person by
mistake. It was a divine plan whether if you believe in God or not. I think many
cheat because they never seem to be satisfied with who they claim to be in love
with. (Copy and tweet). We get caught up in
the hustle and bustle so much we forget that in life, no one will bring you
satisfaction until you make up your mind.
At
weddings, many say “I do” without knowing what they are doing. (Copy and tweet). A few weeks, months or years down the
line, they are divorced or separated because they believe they aren’t
compatible. Sad! Somebody failed to do the necessary checks to understand how
compatible they could be with the next person they want in a relationship. (Copy
and tweet).
Compatibility
is a must which can’t be taken for granted in any relationship. It’s what leads
to satisfaction and subsequently stops comparison. (Copy and tweet). Relationship sites understand the
power of compatibility thus they make sure it’s a major point on which their
sites are built on. I believe it’s
because they’ve found out that if you are ever going to be satisfied and cut
out comparison, you need compatibility.
The lack
of a definite acceptance of yourself and capabilities first and the person
you’ve declared to be in love with could is the major cause of your constant
comparison. (Copy and tweet). When you
made the bold decision to be in love with someone, I hope whatever brought the
two of you together wasn’t the lack of contentment nor assumption but a genuine
desire to be satisfied once and for all. (Copy and tweet).
Stop
wishing the person you are with was someone else! If you wanted to be with
someone else you wouldn’t have chosen to this one you are with. Don’t waste your
time… to thine own self be true! (Copy and tweet).It’s
about time you cut out all the clutter and accept your portion in this life.
When two are united in the web of love, nothing is impossible. (Copy and tweet).
Here is a simple
3 minutes step to help you :-
A.
Stop Comparing!!
B.
Pray for the right
person
C.
Learn to celebrate
yourselves
D.
Accept your portion
and make it great
Talk About It -
A. Why do you think
people constantly compare in relationships?
Yours
Joe Akuoko II
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